This is the whole product. Ten minutes here is the difference between thirty polite notes
and thirty they keep in a drawer for years. Specifics beat compliments every time.
Nobody reads this but the person writing your notes. Be as honest as you would be at 1am.
We ask because a note to a new mother does not read like a note to a new father, and getting it wrong ruins the illusion that it was written for one person.
Please choose one.
Please choose one.
Not "she is kind". Try "she texts everybody on their birthday including people who stopped replying years ago".
This one really matters — please fill it in.
An inside joke, a bad journey, a night nothing went right. Small and specific is better than big and important.
Give us at least one. It becomes their favourite note.
Money, work, family, health, a person, a decision. What keeps them up.
One paragraph. Where you are, what changed, how it has been.
Tell us where you are.
Only the person writing your notes reads this.
A name, a subject, an illness, an ex. We will keep well away from it.